Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Diamonds Are Forever, But Boyfriends Aren't

So it occurs to me that my choice in men has been less than stellar. This is really not breaking news; it’s more of a segment for Dateline or 60 minutes.

Most recently I've been trying to figure out what to do about this odd "relationship" (the jury is out on whether I can really use that word) that I have in my life.

Like the age-old question, "If a tree falls in the woods, and no one is around, does it make a sound?" That how I felt about the relationship...If he already has a boyfriend, can we really have a relationship?

The answer to my question is not as simple as you might think. A) No, if someone is already taken, I can't have the quality of relationship that I want, deserve and need. B) Yes, it was some form of a relationship. We had dates, phone conversations, "good times", and sleepovers.

What do you think?

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Been there...and this is what i came up with...yes its a relationship, its an unhealthy dysfunctional one though :(

6:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

And i might add, ...that will leave you very unhappy, angry and resentful. This may not be you, but it can easily turn you into someone that you hardly recognize. My friend, run the other way...

7:36 PM  

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