Mission Impossible?

I need to make a change in my life. It occurs to me that I don’t have any friends. Ok, I do have friends. In fact I have some very good ones. But I don’t have many friends with common interests that are readily available for fun!

Here is where the problems begin. It seems to me that gay men have only one motive – to get laid. I am guilty of this as well. Many of the men that I meet and talk to in bars are guys that I am attracted too. I am always on the hunt for a man to marry – ok I’d settle for a nice date right about now.

When I am out I don’t make any new friends – and then I go and screw things up by sleeping with guys that I really should just be friends with. Sex is great, but friendships would be so much better.

I am not solely to blame either. As I mentioned, most men work with the same motive. So I meet people that I think will become good friends, but find out they only talk to me because they want to hook up. So then it becomes all awkward, ugh.

So what’s my mission for the rest of the year? Meet new people, make new friends and just enjoy myself.